ソレア心理カウンセリングセンター 埼玉

"Don't give up looking" This phrase was one of the decisions I went to. I couldn't solve the difficulty of my partner's life at the hospital, so I searched the prefecture to find another way to get counseling, but for me living in the Tohoku region, finding a counselor was surprisingly difficult. If the counselor doesn't fit, you won't know until you meet, and there is a part like betting. After searching and relying on my intuition, I arrived at Takama-sensei's homepage, and it took me eight hours to go back and forth to try it. The attitude of listening without self-assertion, quietness, but moderate tension and relaxed sense of security can be received at your own pace for the examinee, and I think that a tone that does not impose will lead to trust. I've been with my partner for over a year, and the counseling day was a special time, though not a big expectation, where I could feel small changes little by little. If there are people who are still worried, I think that they can receive support in various ways even in the distance, so I think it would be good to just consult once. Professor Takama says that you don't have to leave everything from the beginning, it's enough to leave just a piece of yourself. There are times when it's tough (as was the case with our partners), but I'm sure there will be salvation. In that sense, I am grateful that my partner was very lucky to meet Dr. Takama. Thank you very much.

I have an attachment disorder. Counseling was completed in 2 years and 3 months. From the time I was diagnosed with depression at the age of 19 until the age of 38, I had different diagnoses from multiple doctors, including recurrent depression, bipolar II, ADHD, and borderline personality disorder, and I had a hard time living every day. To live, I tried doctoral counseling, compensatory behavior therapy, and spiritual systems for my children, but they were getting worse rather than better. I didn't understand it well because it was the first word I heard from Professor Takama even if he said it was an attachment disorder. But I gradually understood it, and now that I'm 40 years old, I'm no longer caught up in the fierce waves of emotions I don't understand. I am living comfortably like myself.

I was diagnosed with adjustment disorder at the hospital, but I asked for counseling because I felt that the treatment was not successful and there might be other factors. The room itself was a calm space with no waste. He took his worries seriously. In my case, there was a part related to the family environment, so I mainly talked about the family structure and the living environment of my parents' house, but I think that the points to dig deeper are different for each person. I think that what has been hazy for many years has been resolved. If you have a feeling that you can't understand by yourself, you should ask.

In retrospect, I've been living with difficulty for more than half a century since I first remembered it. I thought that everyone who was alive was alive. Then, through the teacher's counseling, I realized that both my parents had an attachment disorder, and it was wonderful that the fog cleared all at once and I am alive now! I am sending the days. If you live hard, the dots will eventually become lines and you can walk in the direction of bright light. After receiving the counseling from the teacher, I realize that if you receive the correct counseling, your life will be guided in the direction of the light. Thank you very much.

I think that the job of a counselor is a "listening professional." With the development of SNS, many people can now send. However, I don't think it is well recognized that the importance of "receiving" is increasing accordingly. No matter how much you send to SNS, friends, or people close to you, do you feel uncomfortable? In such a case, I think it's a good idea to experience the work of a "listening professional". Mr. Takama of the Solaire Psychological Counseling Center is a "professional of listening". Even if you are not in a clear depression, if you feel that the rice is not delicious or if you have a catch that you cannot tell to people close to you, why not hit the gate?

I was suffering from a terrible headache. The direct cause was that I worked hard enough to hunt myself down and couldn't sleep because of anxiety every day. While investigating why I encountered this, I learned about Solaire through keywords such as difficulty in living, self-acceptance, attachment, and mindfulness, and visited the counseling room. Talking to Professor Takama about what I felt and disliked every day made me feel calm. I don't think there was anyone who could usually talk. Eventually, I realized that I couldn't forgive myself, such as the habit of feeling myself, the habit of dealing with people, and the feeling of guilt at the root of my fear. The teacher just listened like a wall, and I think it was a relief that I couldn't get. Occasionally he talked to me to help me verbalize. Eventually, I somehow realized the true nature of the anxiety that was driving me to work every day, and it took me two years to think that this was me, I couldn't help it. The pain and fear have not been resolved yet, but I see the current situation in the middle of negative and positive. I wonder if giving up is like this ... Mr. Takama is posted on blogs, Youtube, and radio, and you can get in touch with your thoughts on the channel that suits you. My recommendation is the radio before going to bed.

I was suspected of having an attachment disorder and received counseling. After talking for the first time over Zoom for about 30 minutes, I was very impressed that Mr. Takama first said, "It's been difficult so far." It was a repetition of talking about my past, getting a little helper, and organizing my past myself. I am grateful that I have overcome my sadness and anger and have a quiet life.

A partner who is more than a friend and less than a lover? I couldn't understand mysterious behavior, and after years of worrying alone and searching for an answer, I learned that there was an attachment disorder. Then, I thought that the avoidant symptoms of attachment disorder were similar to the behavior of my partner, and I wanted to have an expert diagnose it. While looking for a counselor specializing in attachments, I met Dr. Takama's YouTube and website, and applied for counseling with a deep understanding of attachment disorders and the explanation that was not intrusive. After talking about my partner's symptoms, I was diagnosed with "disinhibition-type attachment disorder" and said, "My mother had some kind of intellectual disability and couldn't interact with her emotionally." I heard from my partner and his siblings that the deceased mother was a kind mother who loved cooking, so I thought that should not be the case, but when I asked the partner again if the mother had intellectual disability, it was integrated. I learned that I was hospitalized for schizophrenia. I was surprised at this, as Professor Takama said. Also, during the telephone counseling, I learned that the words and actions I had casually taken toward my partner were too strong (too intimate) for him, and I learned the depth of attachment disorders. Now, with the motto "I feel like I'm watching from a little distance" by Professor Takama, I'm continuing the relationship at a distance that I can't get away from. I don't know what will happen in the future, but it's encouraging just to think that I can talk to Professor Takama if I have any problems.